Saving, Spending and Investing Philosophy

How you think about saving, spending and investing [about money in general] affects where you end up financially. If you think wealth is limited and you’ll never make any, you’re absolutely right. If you think wealth is unlimited and you just have to figure out how to get your share, you’ll be right too!

Its a self-fulfilling prophecy where your actions follow your beliefs. Either spend time learning how to make money and eventually start making a lot of it, or you give up, figure you’ll always be poor and you never figure out how get ahead in life.

Hanging out with like-minded people also has a big affect. Do you spend most of your time with people who complain about how unfair life is, how they’re always broke and how they can never catch a break? Lose them! Their negativity will drag you down too!

Always try to surround yourself with successful people, who have achieved a lot in life and are constantly looking for the next opportunity. These people usually think there’s ample opportunity in life for everyone and rarely complain about getting the short end of the stick. They take responsibility for their failures and don’t waste time blaming others for their misfortunes. A lot of them are more than willing to give you insight into how to achieve wealth yourself and usually for the price of a lunch or dinner will spend a few hours with you. Thats much cheaper than spending $5k on mentoring courses that seem so popular nowadays!

Anyway, if you’re starting out I recommend you read books that will change your thinking and get you into the mindset of becoming rich. After that you can figure out how you want to actually make money be it through stocks, commodities, real estate, a business or working longer hours.

Here are some basic investing books and when you’re done with those, you can read my favorite selection.

Getting wealthy isn’t easy. Its takes time, effort and dedication but its not impossible. Remember, no one ever got wealthy sitting at home on their couch!

On the other extreme, here’s some personal philosophy from Gene Simmons, the front man for KISS


“Be clear, be truthful.
Stand there proudly,
unapologetically,
unabashed, and say,
‘I love cash.
It will get me
everything
I want in life!'”

Working for a living or living for work?

While reading Boston Gal’s Open Wallet Blog, I came across a post about an article in the Boston Globe titled
“To feed a lifestyle, some are taking second jobs”.

It mentioned stories about several well-educated people having decent jobs that were taking on minimum wage jobs to help pay for Christmas gifts. The people in the story weren’t those faced with hardship and had trouble paying for the necessities of life, but middle-class families whose incomes weren’t probably enough to cover they’re consumer spending. There was a young software engineer making $75,000/yr who took a job paying $800/month [probably more like $500 after taxes] so she could buy gifts and an expensive wedding dress. While its commendable that people take 2nd jobs rather than additional debt, if you need an extra few thousand a year after making 75 grand there’s something wrong with the picture.

The people in the article are probably the same kind of people who refuse to spend 6 hrs/month learning about finances/investing or planning for their future. Instead of working minimum wage jobs for which they’re vastly overqualified, if they spent more time at the library and gym instead of the malls and restaurants, they’d be smarter and healthier!

However, as one of my uncle’s said, “anytime your aunt spends working, that’s time not spent shopping!”, so I guess there’s a silver lining in everything.